don't treat users like babies: the whole "we know better than you" vibe in software is condescending af. it's great to make the default path smooth and obvious – most people just want things to work. but the moment you seal off the deeper layers, you're basically saying "you're not smart enough to handle this." curiosity is natural. people want to understand how things work, they want to tinker, they want to make it theirs. when you hide the system, you're not protecting users – you're…