does anyone actually want more data in their life? we’re constantly bombarded with studies, charts, infographics, etc & most of it so esoteric it’s functionally meaningless. one day a study shows X, the next day a different study shows the opposite, & both get posted with equal confidence. nowhere is this worse than relationships & behavioral psychology. strangers are dispensing contradictory advice at industrial scale which is almost always entirely optimized for engagement rather than…